Listen and Behave or Behave and Listen?
Misjudgments, rumours, gossips. Have you ever heard one about yourself? Why is that? Why they’re talking on your back? There’s a thought whether people should behave like what other want to see, or should we just be our selves and walk away? Actually, it’s hard to decide, or maybe, I just let my self being what I am, because our life cannot be easily determined like we choose black or white.
Have you being your self everyday? Are posing of someone? Does your society hope that you should behave in a certain manner? Communities are often mean to us, they occasionally misjudge our behavior. What we thought as a joke, might not be considered as one to other people, that’s an example. How we dress, how we speak to others, our gestures, some took a serious attention to it. Oh yes, you are too bright for them.
To me, I am being what I am now. Yes, we should learn to know how we should behave in some different occassions. But people will keep judge no matter what. Well, maybe we can use their judgementas our reminder, so we will not behave like what people thought we shouldn’t do.
Whatever we do, people will see, they will judge no matter what. If we’re bad, they will surely talk behind us about how awful we are. On the other hand, if you’re good, people will also have the same possibility to think bad ideas about you. So keep your head up! People who truly respect you on daily basis will stay, and that’s what you really need. While others who only know you in surface will fade. Try not to take things personally; what people say about you is a reflection of them, not you! 🙂